Winter, finally

So winter finally came.

Winter in Minneapolis

Winter in Minneapolis

Well, snow did. We had a few sub-zero days but today we were well into the 40’s. We manage regardless of the temperature.

Winter in Minneapolis

The colder it gets inside the cozier it feels inside, so it’s not so bad.

My month of overtime just ended with 60-hour week. It felt like a lot, but I realize that many of my friends are routinely billing 80-90 hours a week at their law firms.

Today was a bit odd because I am now down to a 48-hour week. At some point I had to say, “Okay, I’ve been at the office for nine hours, it’s time to go.”

I took a quick pit stop at Mall of America on the way home. I accepted an offer for a senior position on another team, so I figured I could use some of my overtime pay to buy some new ties and sweaters for work.

The sweaters from H&M were a hot mess. I was horrified in the changing room and reminded that I need to get back to the gym. I was on the LA Fitness personal training schedule but my trainer randomly quit working for the gym without telling me. I found out when I showed up at 5:30 a.m. one morning and no one was there to meet me. That and a bad illness was enough to get me off of the fitness wagon. I’m back on now. I’m signed up for an ungodly time on Wednesday. Maybe my fitting room horrors will behind me come spring.

I finally found some semi-flattering sweaters and ties at Banana Republic. Someday I’ll get out of there with a bill under $250. Maybe I should get one of those credit cards they always try guilt me into. Finding a flattering overpriced sweater is quite a charmed problem to have.

Being comfortable with uncomfortable

The most important change that I made this year is becoming comfortable with discomfort. This is why I don’t whine about my 5:30 a.m. personal training sessions, 7-hour IRS Vita training, or picking up 19 hours of overtime at work. I’m more productive than ever and understanding the purpose of growing/learning pains makes the process easier, and even fun.

Short-term discomfort is necessary to achieve long-term gains. Understanding that discomfort is part of a greater process gives it purpose and makes it easier to work through. Sometimes I wish I had this mindset back during college, but I trotted out of undergrad and law school just fine.

Speaking of college, this video perfectly sums up my life back then:

The resident assistant job was one of the most challenging and frustrating experiences of my life. I met my boss’s expectations, followed university rules, and alienated scores of people in the process. The most vital thing that I learned from that experience was the importance of tact and networking. Sure, I learned that lesson a little late for that job, but it served me well in law school and afterward.

I also love what they called the “fishbowl.” Basically, my freshmen residents were always trolling for dirt to use when they got in trouble. That’s part of the reason why I didn’t drink until I turned 21 and why I learned not to post anything that I wouldn’t mind being spun against me.

I relived the RA experience while working for my last landlord. The job was awful at times but it turned out to be endless fodder for interviews. Past conflict resolution challenges? How about a drug dealer and an unmedicated paranoid schizophrenic as tenants? We also had heat that went out on a weekly basis and infestations galore. At least upset customers at work aren’t going to bang on my door at 2 a.m. (I hope.)

Obviously there was not much networking involved in the property management position, but it was very useful in another way. I just hope that none of my old tenants (or dorm residents) show up at my new place.

This coming week I will find out how well I communicated those experiences during my job interviews. I had four interviews during the last two weeks and I am really excited about the position. The interviews were actually a lot of fun, which I think is ideal. I never thought my old crazy tenants would be useful for my career, but this month’s interviews demonstrate that no experience is wasted.

Pleasantly busy

“Creative power flourishes only when I am living in the present.” – Brenda Ueland

Living in the present is something I’ve done a lot lately because my schedule finally filled out. I go to bed early, wake up for personal training at LA Fitness around 5 or 6 a.m. and then go to work. Evenings are filled with dog walks, tax training, or a second trip to the gym. Then it’s a beverage and a T.V. show.

The Netflix show of choice was Damages but now I am onto The Kennedys, which is ironic considering one of my favorite books is Libra.

Some changes are in order though. I need to get back to the Jillian Michaels / natural foods diet and redouble my efforts at the gym. I want to lose my stomach so I can walk around the office with semi-high-waisted pants like Leo in Revolutionary Road. Minus the cigarette of course…

I also need to get back to my Ableton time. It’s been too long and I need to finish my album.

Things pleasantly busy though, and I feel fortunate.

My second-round interviews for the job are also this week. The position sounds amazing and I just hope the second-round interviews are as fun as the first-round interviews.

These certainly are exciting times, even with the lack of high-waisted pants.

Oh, and randomly, here’s my song of the moment